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Nigerian singer Solidstar recently stirred up social media with a heartfelt Instagram post about his fiancée, but not everyone reacted positively.
On August 27, 2024, Solidstar shared photos with his fiancée, expressing gratitude for her unwavering support over the past decade.
In his post, Solidstar praised his fiancée for sticking by him through thick and thin, despite the pain and heartbreak he admitted to causing her.
He wrote, “LOYAL! For over ten years, all she got from me was pain, tears, and heartbreak. But she never gave up on me.”
While the message seemed to come from a place of appreciation, it didn’t sit well with some social media users. Many questioned the dynamics of their relationship, with comments suggesting that the post highlighted a troubling pattern.
One Instagram user remarked, “Wow. Pain and sorrow, are new criteria for being the perfect woman. It hurts to read this. Stay strong, sis.”
Another added, “Na this kind thing men dey like wait and see how Dey will tag her as a superwoman. God no go, let me collect praises for long-suffering.”
Others expressed concern that the post reflected a problematic relationship dynamic. “Y’all like the ones you all can mess with,” one commenter wrote.
“If she can be messed with, then she’s the right one in a man’s world.” Another user pleaded, “Please, no more pain is allowed! Make up for those years, abeg.”
Some speculated about underlying issues, with one commenter suggesting that Solidstar might have low self-esteem and another pointing out that the couple has a child together, which might explain her staying power. Solidstar had previously announced his engagement on August 6, 2024, with a joyful Instagram post.
