Lolo: “Men Need to Reconsider Their Roles at Home”

Nollywood actress Omotunde Adebowale David known as Lolo has voiced her concerns about a perceived shift in gender roles, stating that many men are stepping back from their traditional responsibilities as providers.

In a recent episode of the ‘Say My Piece podcast’, she discussed how evolving relationship dynamics are impacting these expectations.

Lolo pointed out that patriarchal traditions have deeply rooted gender roles for a long time.

“I blame the patriarchy because these roles have existed for years. Men have always defined themselves as providers, while women have taken on nurturing roles,” she explained.

She questioned why more men seem to distance themselves from these roles in today’s society.

“His forefathers set these expectations, and I don’t understand why men are backing out of their responsibilities as providers,” Lolo remarked.

The actress acknowledged the complexities of modern relationships, noting that roles are beginning to change.

“We see more women taking on roles traditionally held by men. However, many men still resist nurturing at home,” she said.

Lolo shared her frustration about what she sees as a double standard. “Men often say women are too entitled and shouldn’t rely on them for everything. But when we ask men to switch roles, they hesitate to nurture. If you don’t want to be a provider, then step up and be a nurturer at home.”

She highlighted the need for adaptability in relationships. Both partners should be willing to share responsibilities, regardless of traditional roles.